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	<title>Divorce Without Dishonor &#187; Custody Standards</title>
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		<title>&#8220;The Magic Robe&#8221; &#8230; for those who think a judge will solve it all !</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2012/01/01/the-magic-robe-for-those-who-think-a-judge-will-solve-it-all/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 22:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mikemastracci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check out this short You Tube video of the &#8220;Magic Robe&#8221; speech, by yours truly, that was made in conjunction with the Family Law Coordinators from the Circuit Court for Anne Arundel County as part of the upcoming video series for future Divorce Education and Co-parenting  programs. \&#8221;The Magic Robe\&#8221; by Mike Mastracci]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce and Child Custody: It isn&#8217;t about you!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 03:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Mastracci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When engrossed in a child custody or child access dispute replete with hurt feelings, old wounds, fear and uncertainty, it is sometimes too easy to forget that it isn’t about you. People will all too often try to justify their plans and actions in restricting access to the children during separation and divorce while trying [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is the Divorce Without Dishonor ® 2010 Divorce and Child Custody Boot Camp all about?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 12:48:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Mastracci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am glad you asked says your host and creator of the Divorce Without Dishonor Blog. About 14 years ago I sat through my first court-ordered divorce education workshop, sometimes referred to as co-parenting classes or other similar benign titles. The purpose of such programs is really to help parents to avoid contested child custody [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What are we teaching our children of separation and divorce</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2009/08/03/what-are-we-teaching-our-children-of-separation-and-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 12:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Mastracci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I stumbled upon a quote, while reading some other blogs, that may be of interest if you have children, especially young children, and you are going through a moderate to high-conflict divorce. Nearly 20 years ago a well known Canadian Jurist, The Honorable Justice John Gomery stated &#8220;Hatred is not an emotion that comes naturally [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Parent/Child Communication – Even More Vital Post-Divorce</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2009/01/29/parentchild-communication-%e2%80%93-even-more-vital-post-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 10:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosalind Sedacca CCT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s no secret that one of the biggest challenges a parent faces after divorce is staying in good communication with your children. Obviously all parents struggle with communication issues as their children grow, but children who have had their lives dramatically altered by separation or divorce need even more attention – and diligent observation by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Five Tips to Tell Your Children About Divorce</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/12/19/five-tips-to-tell-your-children-about-divorce/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/12/19/five-tips-to-tell-your-children-about-divorce/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 10:19:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maya Richard</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Returning home from work on a busy day, the first thought in your mind is likely to be getting some rest and relaxation. In the context of a divorce, however, there are a number of moving pieces which can complicate family life, even outside of the scope of your former spouse. Ensuring that your children [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Child Custody – Putting Your Children First</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/12/17/child-custody-%e2%80%93-putting-your-children-first/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/12/17/child-custody-%e2%80%93-putting-your-children-first/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 10:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosalind Sedacca CCT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent article I read talks about proposed changes to child custody legislation. An investigative committee is being formed to consider whether &#8220;shared parenting may be the best custodial situation for all children of divorcing parents.&#8221; While I am a strong advocate of shared parenting – it worked very successfully for me – I do [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce Your Spouse – Not your Children&#8217;s Grandparents</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/11/17/divorce-your-spouse-%e2%80%93-not-your-childrens-grandparents/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/11/17/divorce-your-spouse-%e2%80%93-not-your-childrens-grandparents/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 11:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosalind Sedacca CCT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When parents divorce, each member of the family is affected in very unique and personal ways. The age of the child, their gender, their relationship with their siblings, how close they were to each parent and a myriad of other factors all influence the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual repercussions in the months and years [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Collaborative Divorce Allows Healthy Child Custody Agreements</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/01/09/collaborative-divorce-allows-healthy-child-custody-agreements/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/01/09/collaborative-divorce-allows-healthy-child-custody-agreements/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 19:28:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Mastracci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Child custody battles leave only casualties, no winners. Britney Spears&#8217; problems last weekend are only the most recent example (see our January 7 post). Children need the love, support and involvement of both parents while they&#8217;re growing up. Sure, there are cases when one parent may not be capable of effective parenting or when a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Website of the Month: Child-Centered Divorce</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2007/11/02/website-of-the-month-child-centered-divorce/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2007/11/02/website-of-the-month-child-centered-divorce/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Nov 2007 11:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Mastracci</dc:creator>
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