Comments on: Some Holiday Transition Considerations for those in Moderate Child Custody and Child Access Turmoil http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2009/12/16/some-holiday-transition-considerations-for-those-in-moderate-child-custody-and-child-access-turmoil/ Divorce Without Dishonor is an online publication emphasizing positive parenting, collaborative law strategies, and child-centered divorce practices through written articles, links, and resources that are presented by professionals for no cost to the public-at-large. Mon, 04 Jul 2011 03:31:15 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2009/12/16/some-holiday-transition-considerations-for-those-in-moderate-child-custody-and-child-access-turmoil/comment-page-1/#comment-850 Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC Wed, 16 Dec 2009 12:13:38 +0000 http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/?p=300#comment-850 As a psychotherapist who works with divorce issues, I add this simple piece of advice, "Love your children more than you hate your ex." Most children will tell you the divorce is not the problem as much as the fighting is. Take the high road, keep the issues away from the children and stand up for yourself with dignity. It will help your self esteem and benefit your kids while keeping costs down. A win-win for everyone. Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC Author "From Ex-Wife to Exceptional Life: A Woman's Journey through Divorce." As a psychotherapist who works with divorce issues, I add this simple piece of advice, “Love your children more than you hate your ex.”
Most children will tell you the divorce is not the problem as much as the fighting is.

Take the high road, keep the issues away from the children and stand up for yourself with dignity. It will help your self esteem and benefit your kids while keeping costs down. A win-win for everyone.

Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC
Author “From Ex-Wife to Exceptional Life: A Woman’s Journey through Divorce.”

]]> By: Brooke http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2009/12/16/some-holiday-transition-considerations-for-those-in-moderate-child-custody-and-child-access-turmoil/comment-page-1/#comment-849 Brooke Wed, 16 Dec 2009 12:05:22 +0000 http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/?p=300#comment-849 I am so glad that I found your site! I am always happy to see positive suggestions on how to co-parent. It is so important for children to see good examples of people resolving conflict in a mature, peaceful way. I look forward to checking out your book and this blog. Happy holidays! Brooke I am so glad that I found your site! I am always happy to see positive suggestions on how to co-parent. It is so important for children to see good examples of people resolving conflict in a mature, peaceful way. I look forward to checking out your book and this blog.
Happy holidays!
Brooke

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