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There is no way we can control the situations that life may bring us, but we can control how we respond to these situations. The power of choice is ours, and it allows us to see old events in a new way.
Looking back at our old choices, we can make the new choice to interpret them in ways that empower us. We can see where our choices may have been acting against our highest goals, and can make the choice to learn from them, and then choose to behave differently starting right now. For example, we can choose to respond rather than react when old wounds or disagreements are brought up, and in making that choice, we take control in a whole new way and become the designers of our own new realities.
When it comes to choices involving child custody, this can be especially challenging, which is why our book about collaborative divorce, “STOP Fighting Over The Kids: Resolving Day-to-Day Custody Conflict in Divorce Situations” was written. To find out more about the book, visit the STOP Fighting Over The Kids book website.