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When going through a divorce, the desire to lay blame is strong, and of course, natural. But in order to learn and grow from the situation, and truly heal, we need to look inside of ourselves. When we can ask ourselves what our contributions to the situation have been, then we’re ready to take an honest look at exactly how we participated in and co-created our divorce drama. Then we’re ready to release our anger and move forward without dragging the past behind us.
By taking responsibility for our part in the situation, we can make peace with our past, and use it to improve our future. Looking at the whole picture, we will hopefully see how we chose the perfect partner to teach us the perfect lessons for our highest growth. And if there are children involved, we will be able to see that when we are the best we can be, we can give them the parents they deserve.
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Divorce has never a smart answer to marital problems. Im sure both parties doesnt like the idea of being hurt, plus hurting your children. Try praying to God and seek godly counsel. Read your Bible perhaps…