You’re probably still paying Christmas bills, and tax time is already rolling around. Money — and how to save it — is on everyone’s mind. Divorce is expensive and protracted litigation can increase costs exponentially, leaving you and your spouse with staggering legal bills to contend with as you as you each struggle to begin a new phase of life. While collaborative divorce is not necessarily cheap — a lot depends on the complexity of the issues and the number of meetings required to resolve them — it does allow you to exert better control over your divorce costs.
By choosing collaborative divorce, you and your spouse make a commitment to spending your resources on your family and not on a contentious legal battle. You make a conscious decision to place the needs and support of your children above petty — and legally expensive — battling with your spouse.
Most often, children whose parents divorce face a future with significantly less financial security that children from intact marriages. It simply costs more to maintain two households than one. Funds for school trips, enriching activities, and college are often limited or non-existent. Collaborative divorce allows you and your spouse to design a child support arrangement that meets the needs of your specific family. You do not have to contend with arbitrarily imposed court requirements, but can work together to provide your children with maximum financial stability.



This is a very important topic to bring up and send out. Divorce is such a stressful and emotional process, let alone the time and financial strain. This is a very good option that, while not for everyone, is something whose who can should consider. I work for www.firstwivesworld.com, it is an online community for women navigating through the various stages of divorce and life thereafter. We have had many members and experts write on this topic of collaborative divorce, if you would like more information check them out at
http://www.firstwivesworld.com/search/node/collaborative+divorce
Just my two cents
Ann Marie