http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/02/20/how-to-handle-a-messy-separation/ Divorce Without Dishonor is an online publication emphasizing positive parenting, collaborative law strategies, and child-centered divorce practices through written articles, links, and resources that are presented by professionals for no cost to the public-at-large. Mon, 04 Jul 2011 03:31:15 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/02/20/how-to-handle-a-messy-separation/comment-page-1/#comment-1153 patrick Mon, 05 Jul 2010 23:49:45 +0000 http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/2008/02/20/how-to-handle-a-messy-separation/#comment-1153 Am in a messy separation that is destroying not only me but i think my wife as well, We are in two separate countries and the cause of the separation is mainly me, i did all sorts of terrible things to feed my gambling addiction and i denied everything when she confronted me, i came clean finally after a lot of fighting with the truth, however i may have skipped details of how i got my gambling money and now nearly 9 month later somethings are being brought to her attention and am not sure if they are all true because she won't tell me. She does not want any support from me to be sent to her to help with our child, and it is killing me so much. I need help please any one knows who i can call and get some counseling? someone who will not judge me because that is what i last need at this moment. however at the same time i do not want someone who wont tell me the truth like it is. Patrick Am in a messy separation that is destroying not only me but i think my wife as well,
We are in two separate countries and the cause of the separation is mainly me, i did all sorts of terrible things to feed my gambling addiction and i denied everything when she confronted me, i came clean finally after a lot of fighting with the truth, however i may have skipped details of how i got my gambling money and now nearly 9 month later somethings are being brought to her attention and am not sure if they are all true because she won’t tell me. She does not want any support from me to be sent to her to help with our child, and it is killing me so much.
I need help please any one knows who i can call and get some counseling? someone who will not judge me because that is what i last need at this moment. however at the same time i do not want someone who wont tell me the truth like it is.
Patrick

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