Sorry for the typos in the last post for #40. Hope it makes sense.

About the Christian Church, the monster I knew, attempted to use a church to communicate in my case too, some woman travelled to my place to hunt me down and convince me to drop the criminal charges. I was blown away at how much they thought he was such a nice man and that I was some vindictive woman trying to bring this guy down for no reason..Ugh!..

That also helped to contribute to my loss in faith regarding church going people and how easy it is for master manipulators to fool them too, gosh can people really be safe anywhere? Don’t expect to find it there, with events like this taking place!

You made me laugh, when you said my posts sound crazy to those who don’t understand, because I agree, and thanks to those as well as yourself who validated my statements, because if it weren’t for those strangers to come forward, then that was the risk I had to face, and now, I am relieved that I spoke out.

I only wish, I could have found such a post, about certain individuals when I was in peril, I had no answers, no leads, no clue’s, no relief, no support. Everything was blank, evil, new in a dangerous, empty, confusing and scary way, and my only mission after this experience was to get the word out to others, so no one else will suffer the way the rest of the victims have.

(stillhere) your detail is an exact reflection of the experience I had. I wondered for so long if anyone else had the exact same experience, watching an official, pastor, judge etc,., fall for this mess, leading to more victimization and injustice. I have seen the justice system, friends, family and community take the side of predators too often.

Your post has helped and brought much comfort realizing there are others living in and witnessing the same type of nightmare in our society. It is more common than most want to believe.

I truly found some hope in humanity from reading your statement, it is very real to me and based on your reply it brings peace of mind knowing someone else out there can identify with the same experience.

I can’t thank you enough!

@ will, same regards and thanks for sharing as well!

Thank you both for posting. You have brought great relief and understanding.

Best Regards to both of you!

@ stillhere, my jaw literally dropped when I read your reply. I makes total sense and I know that personality type well. I hope that one day, this negative personality will somehow get permanently erased from your world and you can have your life, privacy and peace of mind back.

That Pastor needs serious psychology training, or who knows, he may be a N/P too? After all, he does lead and church, influences and takes peoples money, tells them what they want to hear and most likely lives in a nicer home, drives and fancier car and so many people are being influenced by these Pastors etc.,.

Very sad:( The people attending their churches are all like little weak followers and easily brainwashed, having no idea he supports a dangerous person like your childs father, now that is a shameful thing unknown to the little lambs who attend his services each week..Forgive me for speaking that way, but it’s true in so many cases. This is why I don’t attend church. I am no atheist, but I can’t see myself following the influence of another man or woman for direction, after dealing with what I have, I see mankind in different light and try hard to make my own decisions, lead a decent life, stay educated and informed and do the best I can, I am not perfect, but use the wisdom gained to stay clear of bad situations, minus the manipulation and deception of others..;-) Been there, done that, never again! I learned the hard way too..

I wish you all the best!

Can’t thank you enough for your posts and messages too:)

And when he was old and weak, I took care of him. I managed all his affairs and kept his rotten family from trying to steal his money– money that I needed to pay for his SNF care.

I also wanted the SOB to know who was the better man on his way to a toasty afterlife.

Anyone can reproduce and make a baby, but actually deciding to parent them is an entirely separate issue. You may not realize it, but your dad may be doing you a big favor by not being in your life, because if he was a devoted, good influence, he would have been present for you.

This does not make you less of a person, although many kids feel that way for life once a parent ignores them. Don’t be angry with him, just keep going, because that’s the only choice you have. He is who he is and it’s that simple.

He was not a parent, but only a sperm donor. There are many people who walk in your shoes out there, this is very common, and I am not excusing it either, but want to say, don’t emotionally allow yourself to be punished over his choices.

Sometimes, when men move on from their wives, they can divorce the kids which come from that union to start a new life, sometimes women with this personality disorder can be the same way.

Don’t take it personally, it really has nothing to do with you, just like when a persons spouse cheats, sometimes it’s just that a person has no control due to addictive personalites, or no self respect; therefore, they don’t have the ability to predict how their actions will psychologically and spiritually harm their families.

Also, some are highly aware of what they do, and simply don’t care – hard for some to accept or believe, but that is just how it is out there in the world with many people.

Try your best to go on with your own life, and if the pain still haunts you, do everthing in your power to research the personality types mentioned above. By doing so, you will become empowered, and hopefully not fall victim to this with your own relationship or kids in the future!

Trust no one, but choose wisely and carefully, be very picky as to whom you allow in your intimate space and never rush or allow yourself to be rushed, because you have the power to make a choice, and if someone can’t take their time and wait for you to feel they have proven themselves to you first, then Run!

Of course, that bad man may leave you first(which would mean doing you a favor), before there is ever a remote chance of kids being involved, a great way to weed out undesirable mates (the Sociopath or Narcissist).

Don’t ever approach a relationship or anything for that matter with emotions. For a better chance at happiness to protect yourself in the future, remember, a Sociopathic parent has no empathy for “anything”, so don’t take it personally!

Most women with absent fathers or fathers with this personality are at “high” risk for attracting the same types of men, due to not having a good male role model, yet, sometimes, even girls from homes with devoted fathers can fall victim to a Sociopathic personality, because the seem genuine, sincere and interested in your well-being only in the beginning, and they come in so many forms too, from all walks and levels of life, they are everywhere, so be careful!

Best wishes to you and may you achieve peace and happiness in your life’s journey!

I don’t know “Beth” personally, but heard of her a long time ago, and even though I don’t know her, I wish I could wave a magic wand before her and erase, every bit of terror, pain and fear she has experienced at the hands of her husband. I also hope she is well hidden. When I found out about her situation I wanted to reach out to that poor woman and tell her “I know”, exactly what an upside down hell, she must have experienced at the hands of M, living in fear and silence about it for so long..She is extremely lucky to still be alive today, but after reading the court reports on google, it is to my belief the time was getting close that her life was about to come to an end at the hands of her husband. I am so glad she went to the emergency room to get help because I am convinced she would not be here in the world to be with her kids, had there not been some type of outside intervention after that horrible event.

T and M’s mother has a unique way of gathering support for these guys each time they do something dangerous, and it is sad and frightening, does she not realize she as well as other family and community members who get involved can be in danger too???. I feel bad for the all the victims of T & M, having to watch this go on and experience it, I would not even wish it on my worst enemy. I have seen another person so devastated, shaken, and confused after nearly being beaten and strangled to death by T, and also, never seeing life the same after bearing witness to guys like T who transorm into monsters, it is indescribable, mental illness is an understatement when these guys go into a rage. They are both a very, very, and I need to stress VERY, serious threat to society. There are no words to describe such a frightening encounter with these people. My heart goes out to all who have had the misfortune crossing paths with T or M.

All the women, who have had intimate relationships with Tomas or Miguel will never be the same. Ever! Your mind will be messed up and your trust in people and the system will sink, because they are masters at playing the system/courts (master manipulators) and influencing others that their victims are responsible for their terror and brutal physical assaults, psychological mind games, harrassment and stalking behaviors, etc.,.

I understand a mothers need to help her sons, but with a long history, there must be a point where one should give it up, and stop enabling them to become worse, because it is obvious that they are getting worse as they get older, and their conditions are very serious. Devastatingly so.

If anyone else has been victimized, nearly lost their lives or know about their history, or know of others who have suffered and their lives have not been the same after knowing these guys feel free to vent or just mention oddities of their characters at the email given at the end of this statement below.

Every victim of Tomas Mayzes has been kept in the dark about his long past criminal records, by his mother and the police, and he wins jury trials each time he harms women (people in general), with the help of his mother and her talent for gathering strong community support, they are all in danger for helping these guys roam free, the community at large is in danger.
When will people learn and get a clue??

These guys T & M, can say some really weird verbal stuff to their victims, they can make the room seem to spin with the amount of psychological venom they spew out, before, during and after an attack.

If you see these guys RUNNNNNN!
There must be so many people out there who have suffered at the hands of these men.

Will, I would love to hear from you;)

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